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Okay, I know. This is not about “nutritional” health or “physical” health, but more about the day to day emotional health that can, in turn, cascade into longer term health problems. At the very least, this provides some food for thought (so to speak!). <\/p>\n

Dr. Suzanne Phillips suggests we can all learn how to improve our human relationships by focusing on how we interact with our pets. Among her suggestions:<\/p>\n

Greetings: <\/b>Even on bad days, we greet our pets with a happy, animated hello, and usually a pat on the head or a hug. Do you greet your spouse that way?<\/p>\n

Holding grudges:<\/b> Even when our pets annoy us by wrecking the furniture or soiling the floor, we don\u2019t stay mad at them.<\/p>\n

Assuming the best:<\/b> When our pets make mistakes, we don\u2019t take it personally and are quick to forgive. We give them the benefit of the doubt. Yet when our spouse does something wrong, we often react with anger and blame.<\/p>\n

\u201cThe old expression \u2018you get what you give\u2019 may apply here,\u201d writes Dr. Phillips. \u201cMaybe you give something very positive to your pet that invites the unconditional love and connection that makes you feel so good. Maybe it has potential to enhance your relationship.\u201d<\/p>\n

To learn more lessons from pets to improve your relationship, read the full column, \u201cCan Pets Improve Your Relationship?\u201d<\/a><\/p>\n

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