{"id":2225,"date":"2010-12-07T15:00:00","date_gmt":"2010-12-07T15:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.willclower.com\/blog\/2010\/12\/are-married-men-nicer-men-this-study-answers-that-question.html"},"modified":"2016-08-12T13:39:11","modified_gmt":"2016-08-12T13:39:11","slug":"are-married-men-nicer-men-this-study-answers-that-question","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.mymedwellness.com\/blog\/?p=2225","title":{"rendered":"Are Married men, nicer men? This study answers that question."},"content":{"rendered":"<div style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans; font-size: 14px; line-height: 1.6; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;\"><span style=\"clear: left; float: left; font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: small; line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;\"><img data-opt-id=1441907098  fetchpriority=\"high\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" height=\"320\" src=\"https:\/\/mlcmmqmgggev.i.optimole.com\/w:auto\/h:auto\/q:mauto\/f:best\/https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/todaystoptrends.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/12\/tiger-woods.jpg?resize=274%2C320\" width=\"274\" \/><\/span>Okay, the Tiger Woods pic shows that there ARE exceptions to every rule (except the rule that &#8220;there are exceptions to every rule&#8221;). &nbsp;<\/div>\n<div style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans; font-size: 14px; line-height: 1.6; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;\">But by &#8220;nicer&#8221;, I don&#8217;t mean just chasing women around at the neighborhood HOOTER&#8217;S; I mean the lack of <span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans; font-size: 14px; line-height: 22px;\">antisocial personality traits, such as criminal behavior, lying, aggression, and lack of remorse.<\/span><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans; font-size: 14px; line-height: 22px;\">&nbsp;<\/span>&nbsp;<\/div>\n<div style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans; font-size: 14px; line-height: 1.6; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;\"><b><\/b><\/div>\n<div style=\"font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: medium; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;\"><b>(please share this with women who want men to be nicer)&nbsp;<a href=\"http:\/\/www.addthis.com\/bookmark.php?v=250&amp;pub=willclower\"><img data-opt-id=1342684942  fetchpriority=\"high\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Bookmark and Share\" height=\"16\" src=\"https:\/\/mlcmmqmgggev.i.optimole.com\/w:auto\/h:auto\/q:mauto\/f:best\/https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/s7.addthis.com\/static\/btn\/v2\/lg-share-en.gif?resize=125%2C16\" style=\"border-bottom-width: 0px; border-color: initial; border-left-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-top-width: 0px; cursor: move;\" width=\"125\" \/><\/a><\/b><\/div>\n<div><b><br \/><\/b><\/div>\n<p><\/p>\n<div style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans; font-size: 14px; line-height: 1.6; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;\"><b>But here&#8217;s the chicken-and-the-egg question<\/b><\/div>\n<div style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans; font-size: 14px; line-height: 1.6; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;\">What&#8217;s the cause and what&#8217;s the effect? Are nicer men just more likely to GET married? Or is it that, once they are married and, in women&#8217;s words, &#8220;trained&#8221;, that they BECOME nicer? &nbsp;<\/div>\n<div style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans; font-size: 14px; line-height: 1.6; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;\"><b>The answer:<\/b>&nbsp;<\/div>\n<div style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans; font-size: 14px; line-height: 1.6; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;\">A little bit of both, according to the study author Dr. S. Alexandra Burt at Michigan State University. Married men &#8220;<i>are just not as antisocial to begin with,&#8221; she said. &#8220;And when they get married, they get even less antisocial. So both things are going on<\/i>.&#8221;<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans;\"><span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans; font-size: 14px; line-height: 1.6; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;\">In their study, they followed <i><b>289 pairs of male twins<\/b><\/i> for 12 years, between the ages of 17 and 29. More than half of the twins were identical, meaning they shared all the same genes and childhood environment.<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans;\"><span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans; font-size: 14px; line-height: 1.6; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;\">The authors found that men who eventually married &#8212; about 60 percent of them &#8212; showed less antisocial behavior at ages 17 and 20, suggesting that nicer men are more likely to be marriage-worthy in the first place.&nbsp;<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans;\"><span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans; font-size: 14px; line-height: 1.6; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;\">However, among these identical twins in which one was married and one wasn&#8217;t, the married twin had fewer antisocial behaviors after the union than the unmarried twin. Same genes, same environment; but the married twin behaved better. These findings indicate that marriage helped weed out those bad behaviors.<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans;\"><span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans; font-size: 14px; line-height: 1.6; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;\">&#8220;Not everyone is equally likely to enter the institution of marriage,&#8221; King said. &#8220;But those that do enter into it get some benefit from it.&#8221;<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans;\"><span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans; font-size: 14px; line-height: 1.6; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;\"><\/div>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.reuters.com\/article\/idUSTRE6B55I820101206\">Married men are nicer, and here&#8217;s why | Reuters<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.addthis.com\/bookmark.php?v=250&amp;pub=willclower\"><\/a>For more information: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.willclower.com\/\"> Click here to visit Will Clower&#8217;s website. <\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Okay, the Tiger Woods pic shows that there ARE exceptions to every rule (except the rule that &#8220;there are exceptions to every rule&#8221;). &nbsp; But by &#8220;nicer&#8221;, I don&#8217;t mean &hellip; <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[],"tags":[410,382],"class_list":["post-2225","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","tag-antisocial-behavior","tag-marriage"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p7Qv5g-zT","jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":1847,"url":"https:\/\/www.mymedwellness.com\/blog\/?p=1847","url_meta":{"origin":2225,"position":0},"title":"The simplest dietary rule on this particular planet","author":"Will Clower","date":"February 4, 2016","format":false,"excerpt":"Follow @willclower For more information: Click here to visit Will Clower's website. 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